Man's Exhausted Pregnant Girlfriend is Expected to Watch His Sister's Children While The Rest of Them Go Partying in Ibiza: ‘[He said] I'm at home doing nothing anyways’

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    Sister in law (f40) booked two weeks to stay with us and expects me (f30) 5 months pregnant to mind children while she goes to Ibiza
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    My boyfriend (m28) and I (dating a 10 months) have been living in Malaga since may untill September and his dad previously booked two weeks to stay with his two kids which caused a lot of tension between
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    my boyf and I as I was too tired a lot to do activities and entertain them while my boyf was in work which he was put out by. I've been tired a lot during this pregnancy and just need rest sometimes.
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    Now his sister has booked two weeks to stay and wants me to mind her 2 children while they rest of them go to Ibiza. I've never met this sister or children yet either I just think it's so cheeky??? I think it's cheeky to
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    book two whole weeks in the first place and then to assume I would mind her children also while she goes to party on Ibiza? My boyf says he agrees with me but now he feels guilty cause she's upset and being off with him and says she's not coming at all.
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    What do I do should I mind her children while they all go to Ibiza? I don't think I should have to at all especially being 5 months pregnant and never met these peope.
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    TL;DR sister in law booked two Weeks to stay with us was invited for one! wants me to mind kids while she's in Ibiza
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    Pterodactyl_Nois... No • 11h ago she was upset. Her plans of entitlement are foiled! If she's not coming at all, then that problem is solved. Next issue to tackle is making sure your boyfriend is willing to stand his ground for you...
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    Amar Akbar_Ant... . 11h ago Not your problem. Do not do it for her because then it will become a regular thing. Also really weird that she wants someone she and her children have neverr met to do this??
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    dukeofbun • 6h ago . 10 months in, 5 months pregnant and already his entire family feel entitled to use you as free childcare while they ditch you to go party? Wow.
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    He feels guilty because she's upset that you turned her down? Babe. This man. He ain't it. Hold your ground or he's gonna have you as a domestic servant.
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    Dear_Parsnip_6802 • 8h ago No way. Your bf should not even considered leaving you with his sisters kids. Your bf is just as unreasonable as his sister. Stand your ground and tell them no way. If they don't come at all because of it so be it.
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    Knittingfairy09113 · 7h ago Stick to it. Expecting you to provide free childcare is beyond entitled. Quite frankly, I'm not at all impressed with BF's family or his wishy-washy attitude or their BS.
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    helendestroy • 9h ago She's his sister. He needs to deal with the kids. Don't take this on as a problem. Book a room somewhere else if you have to.
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    Physical-Reality9613 OP. 9h ago He's going to Ibiza with them of course I've told them to bring the kids to Ibiza with them but it's not sitting well because I'm "at home doing nothing anyways"
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    HarveySnake · 6h ago I think you need to take a vacation. Pack your bags. Tell your boyfriend that you're going to go visit family, friends, whatever, somewhere far away for a few weeks and have fun with his family.
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    His sister, his family, is his problem to deal with. It's his job to enforce boundaries and advocate on your behalf in problems between you and them. He's not doing his job.
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    rmrico • 7h ago This situation sounds like it really and I'm very empathetic for you, but it sounds like you really need to think about what the future is going to be now that he's shown you who he is and what his priorities will be.
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    TwinGemini 1908 5h ago Who in their right mind would leave their kids for two weeks with someone they don't know. She doesn't sound like a good parent and your partner needs to stop enabling the • He can watch her kids if he wants but don't allow them to put that off on you.
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    tv1577 7h ago • It seems that if you are going to stay in this relationship, you are going. to have to be vigilant in advocating for yourself. Never back down. Expect to get blindsided on the regular, and don't rely on your boyfriend to advocate on your behalf. He is willing to throw you under the bus when it is convenient.
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    stuckinnowhereville 5h ago No no no. YOU ARE NOT MARRIED SHES NOT YOUR FAMILY. You don't do wife things without the title and on this with a title. Peace out and the BF can figure this out. no
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    RO489 • 5h ago Sounds like if your bf feels. bad he should watch his nieces and nephews.

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